Slow living is something that has appealed to me for a long time, particularly since I’ve been listening to the Slow Your Home podcast and learning all about the ‘slow home movement’. As someone whose brain works at a million miles an hour, whose diary is an exhausting read without having to think about actually doing all the things in it, and who is rarely found without one eye on her phone, one on her computer, munching on convenience food and wondering why she’s not sleeping – slow living certainly has a strong attraction.
I noticed last week that when I’m away staying in a hotel I am very neat and organised. I tidy the room every evening, fold all of my clothes, ensure reading materials are in a neat pile on the bedside cabinet, and store away anything I’m not going to use. I love living clutter free when I’m away, but at home it’s almost as if I’ve lost the war, so I don’t bother. The sheer amount of ‘stuff’ is just too much to keep in check, so it’s almost as if it’s easier to just not even try to keep it tidy! We have a lot of items piling up on different surfaces – books, mail, magazines, ornaments and trinkets on show in the lounge, candles, frames and general bits and bobs, that it never looks tidy. I know it has an impact on my stress levels – sometimes I walk from room to room feeling exasperated and out of control. I’ve always felt like the solution was to constantly be tidying – clear things away, put things in drawers, have homes and storage for everything; but it only recently occurred to me that it would be a whole lot easier if we just didn’t own all that stuff. Less to dust, less to tidy, less to shove in drawers when people come round!
For me though, slow living is about more than just de-cluttering and living less superficially. I believe that my life would be better if I took more time for gratitude, being mindful and present, dedicating time to self-care, and managing my time a little better. I am always saying that I 'don't have time' to do things, but I get bored of hearing myself say it because I know that you only have time for the things you really value and prioritise. We are now considering moving out of a relatively rural location into Bournemouth city centre - away from our vegetable patches, backdrop of fields and being surrounded by winding country roads. But strangely, I think there will be more opportunities to 'slow down' if we relocated - being able to walk to the train station and then get the train to work in the morning, walk to town and go for brunch at the weekend, and see friends more easily, will be amazing. (Plus moving house is a great opportunity to get rid of loads of our stuff!)
Have you heard of slow living? What does it mean to you?